Many parents should put a lot of pressure on their children to succeed

by: Umair (100% originale)

Smartphone, earbuds, computer, games etc. These are the things that we all seen on our children generation. Ourself barely see children holding their book like it used to be in the past 2000. These day, not even a children but an adult is addicted to a gadget such as smartphone, computer, etc. Hence, this generation, mostly relied on the childrens and teenager are less motivated and educated to do their responsibility.

It is certain that the era had just change dramatically during the 2020 COVID-19 where it persuade the civilization to get in charge on their phones as a cause of Virus Lockdown. However, those situations back then was giving a punch to the recent generation. Nowadays people get comfortable being in front of their screen, instead of papers. These might give a strong change within the younger generations behavior, especially the ones that has an access to their gadget or parents gadget.

This brings a new challenge for the parents to give more efforts in order to control their childrens career. Indeed those children and teenager would have chosen to get their eye illuminated by the screen rather than books. We all are able to think the solution of this new developed problem using our intuition and based on people experience. As our children get addicted to their phones, words aren't able enough to stop them doing their things, Distracting the childrens from their phone with something interesting, would be a good start since they will have two interesting activity that they have to pick.

It is said that parents should put a lot of pressure on their children to succeed, this is not totally right, since we shouldn't put too much pressure, that would cause some mental problem even in the younger age, this had happened many time in China and even in our country, where parents put too much pressure on their children, so that later when their childrens are growing up, they have set their mindset differently from what they are back then, consequently, they stick to what their parent did to them, that quantity is more prioritized than quality, as a result of excessive pressure that force them to gives more quantity more than quality.

This something undoubtly we can observe on most of the factory in China, where they not only rely on the money things, they produce some products that mostly prioritized their quantity over its quality, where in other hand, the western countries products mostly having a better quality, as a result of the people background and mindset. It is believed that eastern family is more stricter than western one. But giving our childrens a 

freedom or access on their phones will be a regrettable choise later on.

To summarize, within the change of accessibility of smartphone, every individual are able to do anything on their smartphones, therefore, we have to say that the use of smartphone also have an impact on this generation, either the good one or the bad one. Such a good thing if we can control our uses of these gadgets. However, the children whose capabilities haven't mature yet, similarly to a teenagers received a heavier rain of bad impact, such as lack of motivation to study and learn. This cause the parents to put even more pressure on their childrens for the reason that the children might take the school seriously rather just being controlled by their gadget. However, giving an excessive amount of stress on a childrens would always be a wrong choise, since it can change what they are. 

The best choise are to give them something rewarding that will distract their attention on their gadget. Giving them pressure is not a bad idea, as long as we know the limit we couldn't pass. We have to learn parenting knowledge in order to understand our children behavior, giving them a warmful conversation and a lovely attention to our son and daughter have to be the most important thing that parent couldve done.